What is compulsive gambling?
The explanation that seems most acceptable is that compulsive gambling is an illness, progressive in its nature, which can never be cured, but can be arrested.
What are some characteristics of a person who is a compulsive gambler?
- INABILITY AND UNWILLINGNESS TO ACCEPT REALITY. Hence the escape into the dream world of gambling.
- EMOTIONAL INSECURITY. A compulsive gambler finds he or she is emotionally comfortable only when "in action". It is not uncommon to hear a these kind of gamblers say: "The only place I really felt like I belonged was sitting at the poker table. There I felt secure and comfortable. No great demands were made upon me. I knew I was destroying myself, yet at the same time, I had a certain sense of security."
- IMMATURITY. A desire to have all the good things in life without any great effort on their part seems to be the common character pattern of problem gamblers. Many of this kind of players accept the fact that they were unwilling to grow up. Subconsciously they felt they could avoid mature responsibility by wagering on the spin of a wheel or the turn of a card, and so the struggle to escape responsibility finally became a subconscious obsession.
Also, a compulsive gambler seems to have a strong inner urge to be a 'big shot' and needs to have a feeling of being all powerful. The compulsive gambler is willing to do anything (often of an antisocial nature) to maintain the image he or she wants others to see.
Then too, there is a theory that compulsive gamblers subconsciously want to lose to punish themselves. There is much evidence to support this theory.
How can you tell whether you are a compulsive gambler?
Only you can make that decision. Most people turn to some organization when they become willing to admit that gambling has them licked. Also in those organisations, a compulsive gambler is described as a person whose gambling has caused growing and continuing problems in any department of his or her life. Many compulsive gambler went through terrifying experiences before they were ready to accept help. Others were faced with a slow, subtle deterioration which finally brought them to the point of admitting defeat.
What is the first thing a compulsive gambler ought to do in order to stop gambling?
The compulsive gambler needs to be willing to accept the fact that he or she is in the grip of a progressive illness and has a desire to get well. Our experience has shown that the Gamblers Anonymous program will always work for any person who has a desire to stop gambling. However, it will never work for the person who will not face squarely the facts about this illness.
How can we help you?
If you want your account to be closed just contact our support. You can also fill out our self-exclusion form. However, re-activation requests will be entertained only after the expiry date of this exclusion, unless you have requested to be excluded permanently. This decision will be reviewed by Management before a decision is made.